If You Think You,

are having a hard time with your family,

 staying in lockdown for the duration, spare a thought for the polygamists out there, photograph Aranxa Esteve/Unsplash, especially if you live in a country like Kuwait, where polygamists make up about 8 percent of the Arab countries population, and has imposed some of the strictest rules to stop the spread of the SARS-Cov2 virus in the Middle East, including a nationwide, lockdown until May 30, suspending all but essential private and public sector activities, and enforcing a curfew which only allows people to go out for groceries once every six days. The strict measures are expected to slow the spread of the coronavirus, but they are also making life much harder for polygamists, “My life has become so complicated,” Abu Othman, a 45-year-old polygamist and a father of 10, told AFP, “I am constantly on the move between them. Sometimes police patrols understand my situation, while at other times I have to apply for permission claiming there is a ‘family emergency'”,

Abu is one of the lucky polygamists who have both wives living in the same area, making it easier to spend time with both families, but for some, the lockdown is causing some serious relationship problems. So serious is the seriousness of the situation in Kuwait that the Fatwa Committee at Kuwait’s Ministry of Awqaf and Islamic Affairs had to step in clarify things,

“A polygamist who is forced to live at one of his wive’s houses because of the curfew must give the other (or others) a choice between accepting it or agree to a divorce (if they so wish),” a member of the committee told national media,

another member opted for a more relaxed approach, suggesting that a polygamist man should simply draw the name of the wife he will be quarantining with to simplify the decision, and then “make it up” to his other wives by spending more nights at their homes when the restrictions are lifted, so that all wives feel treated the same, unfortunately, things are not as simple as these committee members assume they are, there are often many children involved in these polygamist relationships, so divorce isn’t the ideal solution; as for blindly picking one wife to spend the lockdown doesn’t account the jealousy and envy of the other wives, and there you were feeling sorry for yourself when the worlds polygamists are having a much harder time of it.